How to brag nicely

“Well, um… I don’t want to blow my own trumpet, but…”

Is it OK to brag – if we do it nicely?

We were probably all told when we were little that it’s rude to show off. To brag. 

And I know from my communications coaching how common it is for people to gloss over their achievements, or talk about them apologetically. 

To water down successes with phrases like that (rather British) trumpet metaphor above. I remember using it myself.

It’s true, I’m definitely not a bragger. In fact, I’m an anti-bragger. 

But what if we brag nicely…? In a spirit of generosity.

Simply stating the facts.

• Our success story might help solve a problem because we’ve been there before, and can share our knowledge

• We could build a stronger connection with people because they know a little more about us.

• We might even inspire someone into action.

If we want to make an impact, and make the most of opportunities, we have to be OK to talk about what we’ve done well. To be comfortable with bragging nicely. 

And it’s OK too to get excited and let the passion show. 

My business turned 10 years old last year and I’m mighty proud of what I’ve built as a solopreneur. And that I’ve helped so many people step into their true potential through their communications. Yayyy!

Wait! There’s an added bonus:

When we share our successes with others, it’s also a way of anchoring them for ourselves - and deepening self-confidence.

So I reckon it’s fine to brag. But nicely.

With a shared purpose, presence… and plenty of pride.

What do you think?

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